So Im not gonna get to detailic in this first part since this isnt about me but anyway.

So since I was young my mother has mainly verbally abused me sometimes not too too often , physically abused me. And as a little girl I couldnt handle it, it felt like a stabbing wound for my mom not to understand. I only saw my Daddy on the weekends/ still is that way. I love him dearly hes my security blanket.
Now Ive always been able to vent on my friend "Mukin" here on D.A. I know her in real life, but not relate to her. WHICH IM GLAD! I would never want her to go through what I have. Anywho growing up I got used to it and laugh about it with my friends at school.


So yesterday I found out I can relate finally to one of my friends. "Ally".

So Mukin and I go to sleep over our friend Ally's for the first time.
now when I first get there its all fine, Mukin and Ally were laughing in the room as I was as well. Just acting like typical teen girls- gossiping, drawing story telling , blah etc.

Well Ally has two younger syblings in the first grade. (They are twins)
Now of coarse at that age we ALWAYS want to be with our older "oh so cool" syblings and show off to them and look cute. etc. well one sister comes in asking ally for a hug. Ally Brutally yells. "NO GO AWAY STOP LOOKING FOR ATTENTION!" And closes the door on her.
I just said "Easy ally shes only a kid" and ally told me to bud out, so I was like "What ev!"

Now the dad was out picking up dinner while the mom was at work etc. Well The two girsl were in their room being well behaved singing "The Muffin Man" Ally walks infront of their door and yells "WOULD YOU SHUT UP YOUR SO ANNOYING JUST SHUT UP AND STOP JESUS CHRIST"

Mukin and I just stared at eachother and I said. "Ally Do you really need to be so hard on them?? They are only like 8ish" And ally replied "Yes I Do , You dont understand so BUD OUT" Then mukin coughed up "You cant expect us to ignore this ally their jsut singing friggin muffin man and your biting their heads off for it, you cant ask us to ignore that! "

And ally told her she wouldnt understand and to bud out. So Mukin and I sat quietly.

Then ally pikes up again "HOWS ABOUT NEXT TIME YOU TWO COME OVER WE GO WORSHIP MY SISTERS EH? WHY NOT THEIR SO PERFECT AND CLEARLY IM NOT GOOD ENOUGH!"

Mukin and I were like "we werent saying that ally!" I then told ally " You gotta stop barking at them their only kids!" And ally wouldnt give up on it. She set up the dinner table pretty loudly- arranaging the plates in color/seat order. (Talk about OCD)

Ally sat down rudely then she found one of her sisters shoes under the table she picked it up went into their room and whipped it at them while they were coloring. One of them got scared from it hitting them they fell over and hit their head on a corner. The girl was Crying loudly from the pain.

Mukin and I were like "Ally you hurt her" ally just says "GOOD! Now would you bud out?"

I honestly by then was ready to pack my things and say Im out. I think mukin too. but we stayed. for the girls. when ally left the room I went to check up on the kid who was still crying. and when ally was lecturing us on how we should "bud out" the girl was scared and I winked at her to help put a smile on her face and ally just glared at me. and I was jsut like "chill out"

Well ally went to go get somethign and one girl got out of her room mukin and I were like shrieking for her to go back in her room " GO GO GO GO GO" before ally got back and flamed at her...

TOO LATE! Ally was in "GET IN YORU ROOM NOW!!!!!!!!!!" "GET IN THEIR NOW! GO GET ! GET OUT!!!" And the little girl started crying. The lil girl said "I just need to go to the bathroom" and ally goes "WELL why didnt YOU SAY SO!" I coughed up "You didnt give her the chance- and why does she need your permission to use the toilet eh?

Well when the dad got home with dinner we all sat down ally was glaring - but not at anything. Ally was silent and didnt say anything.
But like Mukin says in her much shorter easier to understand journal entry XD There was tension. so we were eating and THE FATHER, knocks over allys juice- hits her upside the head and says " nice going octopus you knocked it over" I thought he was jsut being funny but ally had the nastiest face on ehr like she was possed by four demons.

Anyway tension toned down when the dude left. but then he comes back in. He wipes his hands in her hair like a napkin, " I forgot my napkin, thanks" so ally now has pizza sauce and bread crumbs in her hair. Now I didnt knwo his hands were dirty so I laughed a lil thinking he was just kidding until when his hands left her head and their I saw it DX

Now the father treats teh two girls (hsi real daughters) like perfect princesses and ally like the beginning cinderella.

So mukin and I went into allys room and talked to eachother- then we asked her. and she was crying saying how her real pa died when she was three months old and her grand parents were who she flocked too and how her mom used to be so nice until she met "him"
now not all but alot of single moms when they find a guy BAMB they go out with him and marry just like that. And thats ally's case. Only during the growth of this relationship the mom changed to.

And ally on a daily basis gets verbally abused.
Ally hates her sisters because they get attention and she doesnt.
Mukin and I tried explaining to her that she cant take it out on them- that only makes ally look like him in the girls eyes. they are too young to fully understand the situation.

The next morning we got up had breakfast. Ally had to clean the entire kitchen (the fathers mess) to cheer ally up I tried saying a few jokes - now ally and I ALWAYS pick on eachother , in funny ways.
So I said " I wonder if ally would fit in my locker hrm?" ally gave a slight giggle. and the mom starts laughing overally loud, I was thinking to myself "It isnt that funny...." and her mom says " Id pay to see that! Call me on my cell when that happens" then the dad was like "ya itll mean us not having to deal with her" then they both laughed Mukin and I just stared in silence.

It was difficult. there is more to this story but I dont want to get any further.

lets just say - if the parents were like that infront of mukin and I, what are they like when we are not there?

And will ally ever understand she cant blame her sisters?

It was rough. But I can relate (except the jelousy and parents choosing siblings.) just the parent part XD